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It's challenge time!

Comment with Just One Thing you've accomplished in the last 24 hours or so. It doesn't have to be a hard thing, or even a thing that you think is particularly awesome. Just a thing that you did.

Feel free to share more than one thing if you're feeling particularly accomplished! Extra credit: find someone in the comments and give them props for what they achieved!

Nothing is too big, too small, too strange or too cryptic. And in case you'd rather do this in private, anonymous comments are screened. I will only unscreen if you ask me to.

Go!

Thursday @ 9:41 pm

Nov. 6th, 2025 21:41
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bloodlines 2

. . . okay that was not who I was expecting the returning character from the first game to be, hey.

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SNAP [curr ev, US]

Nov. 6th, 2025 03:12
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Americans, as I hope you know, on Nov 1st, the Federal government, being shut down, did not transmit the money to the states to pay for the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, aka SNAP, aka "Food Stamps". In many states, SNAP money is supposed to hit recipients' EBT cards on the first of the month. It didn't. There is in the SNAP budget funds to cover emergencies, but Trump said he would not release it; lawsuits ensued, and as of right now, partial payments are going to be or have been made.

I commend the following video to you. It's longish - 26 minutes – but worth your time.

2025 Nov 1: Hank Green [[profile] hankschannel on YT]: "This Shutdown is Different"

Hank Green, of vlogbrothers fame, invites Jeannie Hunter, Tennessee regional director of the Society of St. Andrew (aka EndHunger.org), on to his personal chanenel explain how the US's Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, aka SNAP, aka "Food Stamps", actually works.

Hunter turns out to be a great interview subject and the resultant conversation was fascinating. I highly recommend it - not just to understand what's at stake in the goverment shutdown, but for your own simple enjoyment of learning how things actually work, and also so you can more eloquently advocate for this system.

[ SECRET POST #6879 ]

Nov. 5th, 2025 17:38
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⌈ Secret Post #6879 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.



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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 12 secrets from Secret Submission Post #982.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Call for Volunteers 2026

Nov. 5th, 2025 14:34
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It’s coming up at that time of the year again and we wanted to let you know that the Fandom Snowflake Challenge will be happening again in January. We are very excited about hosting another round! To make the upcoming round as awesome as it can possibly be we are looking for volunteers to help us out! Here are the details on what the requirements and expectations of volunteer mods are for you to consider.

Requirements and Expectation of Volunteer Mods


General Volunteer Requirements:


All volunteers will have the opportunity to help us mold the challenges by helping come up with what challenges we offer and when we offer them. 


Volunteers must be willing to interact with a lot of people who have different interests and levels than you and some of them, you might be the only interaction they receive. You must be able to offer support and encouragement or alert other mods to the need. 


We have 4 levels of involvement that can fit most people's availability. 

1) Poster and First Comment Responder

2) Comment Responder

3) Other Site Organizer 

4) Graphics


Poster: We have 19 posts scheduled (15 challenges, one introduction, one meet the mods, one wrap up post and the friending meme.) You can sign up for only one if you'd like, or more if you're able. 


Responsibility of  Poster: create the post using the template provided. Seek feedback if you'd like. Post into the community, and then notify us in the mod community so we all know it's there.  Then you are the first responder to that post. You don't have to answer every comment or read every post after. But you'll be the one getting the notifications as the challenge progresses so you'll have the sole responsibility of cheering on the stragglers.


Second Responder, Third and (hopefully) Fourth Responder Responsibilities

✔️Help poster respond to comments on the community post (we get an average of 150 participants per challenge) 

✔️Take turns commenting on each post of our participants. 

✔️Communicate with other volunteers throughout the month.


Other Site Organizers Requirements


We need volunteers familiar with other fandom spaces that aren't Dreamwidth if we want to have a presence in these spaces. This will require adapt each Dreamwidth post to making a post on your site, which may include fixing links, removing or altering HTML, sharing a small quote and linking to the Dreamwidth post, tagging appropriately, and/or removing or altering images to your site's specifications. You should be prepared to post the above 19 posts listed under Dreamwidth Poster and you should also be prepared to make additional posts as needed on your site to share any applicable graphics, share your site specific tags, or otherwise interact with your site participants. 


Depending on your site, you may need to keep track of a tag, reply to comments on your post, keep track of reblogs, keep track of direct messages, or otherwise monitor your site for participant entries. You need to interact with participant entries in some way, such as commenting, reblogging, Liking, or whatever is possible on your site. Ideally, each site should have an additional volunteer (or volunteers) to help with posting and commenting on your site which might involve creating site specific templates, communicating outside of the Dreamwidth mods community, and other mod duties (like answering asks, checking an inbox, or maintaining a community.

 


Graphics:


We'd love to have someone with graphic abilities to help us create some banners and icons. Only requirement other than making awesome pretties is to supply the coding needed to post it.


It really is a lot of fun, made more so by the inclusion to as many people from as many fandoms and spaces as possible. 




Thursday @ 8:58 am

Nov. 6th, 2025 08:58
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I was prepared to tolerate Apple’s bad new UI for iOS Safari until I realised the floating button things are exactly in position to obscure the close button on those bottom-corner autoplay video ads.

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Thursday @ 7:55 am

Nov. 6th, 2025 07:55
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Got my email from Microsoft sheepishly admitting I could, in fact, get a version of Office for cheaper and without all the algogen slop and never before have I smashed a link in an email so fast.

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Free for me (but not for thee).

Nov. 6th, 2025 06:14
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“Me speech” is a common practice among rich and influential Americans. Practitioners of “me speech” use the phrase “free speech” quite a bit. But what they mean is free speech for themselves. They want a monopoly on it.

Timothy Snyder on the me speakers.

See also this.

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What I’ve Read
The Nine Tailors by Dorothy Sayers
(audiobook, narrator Ian Carmichael)
Ok, this is the kind of book that almost makes me love the English, tho they do not deserve it. Dorothy Sayers wrote this book, and it’s such a careful look at this one small town in this one backwater place with one magnificent church in it with a set of also magnificent bells. Both this and Murder Must Advertise have a reputation in the Sayers fandom (such as I am aware of it) as being The Weird Books – where you just have to follow Sayers into her latest obsession and trust that you’re going to get an exciting story out of it on the way. And you do! It honestly felt like it has some spiritual overlap with Barbara Pym’s Excellent Women, about the women who provide so much support and life to the little parishes around England. This is set thirty years earlier and with a far more rural view, but man, it does have those careful little inside views of an English parish. Do I understand anything more about English style change ringing? Only the barest crumb! Did I enjoy myself? I had a wonderful time!

Of Monsters and Mainframes
by Barbara Truelove
I feel I should recant my opinions from last week. I was irked by the audiobook narrator, who, I admit now, had the thankless task of attempting to narrate a book that starts in binary. I have seen a better light. Here’s the story:

I talked to a friend (thank you, bookclub gods, for nerds who read fast) and expressed my woes about how the book was slow and dumb and not scary and I didn’t care about any of the people who were dying and the genre mashup was not working for me because the book couldn’t decide if people know about specific monsters from literature (Dracula is in this book, did I mention?) or not (the space computer did not believe in werewolves) – and she said, “I don’t think it’s trying to be scary. I think it’s camp.”

And lo, in retrospect, it was pretty clearly camp. Not serious, and not scary, and one of the monsters is a mummy named Steve and the creature called Frankenstein is an art project gone wrong and the werewolf is gay. It’s fucking camp. I’m glad my friend reeled me back in, because I actually had a wonderful time reading this book and I feel moderately unstoppable riding that high.

What I’m Reading


The Artists Way – Week 4 – AKA, the week where you are supposed to not read anything and see how you fill the empty space that you had previously taken up in your life by reading and generally distracting yourself with things. It’s been a day. I hate it. I hate it so much. I walked up to a little free library with delight and said, “FUCK, I can’t read any of these!” to the delight of my amused spouse. I have also had three very meaningful conversations, taken a nice walk with my spouse in the windy fall day with deliciously crunchy leaves, cleaned and refilled several of my fountain pens, changed out the annoying keycaps on my work keyboard for better ones from my stash, bought replacement HVAC filters, and wrote a long tantrumy letter to a friend. So. Uh. It might be working.

What I’ll Read Next

Witness for the Dead Katherine Addison
The Fortunate Fall by Cameron Reed
Next Earthsea book?

BtVS Triple Drabble: Ready

Nov. 5th, 2025 18:06
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[personal profile] badly_knitted
 


Title: Ready
Fandom: BtVS
Author: 
[personal profile] badly_knitted
Characters: Willow, Oz.
Rating: PG-13
Spoilers: Amends.
Summary: Willow wants to prove to Oz that he’s the only one.
Written For: Challenge 393: Amnesty 65 at 
[community profile] fan_flashworks, using Challenge 42: Candles.
Disclaimer: I don’t own BtVS, or the characters.
A/N: Triple drabble.
 


 
 
ExpandReady... )

FAKE Double Drabble: Outgrown

Nov. 5th, 2025 17:22
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Title: Outgrown
Fandom: FAKE
Author: 
[personal profile] badly_knitted
Characters: Ryo, OFC, Bikky.
Rating: PG
Setting: After the manga.
Summary: Bikky is causing his foster father some unexpected problems.
Written Using: The dw100 prompt ‘Exchange’.
Disclaimer: I don’t own FAKE, or the characters. They belong to the wonderful Sanami Matoh.
A/N: Double drabble.
 
 


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[personal profile] badly_knitted
 


Title: Unseasonably Hot
Author: 
[personal profile] badly_knitted
Characters: Ianto, Jack, Tosh, Andy.
Rating: PG
Written For: Challenge 890: Hot at 
[community profile] torchwood100.
Spoilers: Nada.
Summary: It shouldn’t be this hot in November.
Disclaimer: I don’t own Torchwood, or the characters.
A/N: Double drabble.
 


 
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Amina al-Sirafi, who, at a low moment, describes herself as a criminal, a sinner, a foul-mouthed middle-aged woman with a bad knee, is a Muslim pirate in the 12th century, retired. She lives off the grid and takes care of her daughter and their crumbling home, but—isn't it always the way—that one last job pops up that she can't refuse, on account of the extortion.

Her adventures include cons, jailbreaks, battles at sea, an ex(kinda)-husband, superpowered wizards, exotic explosives, even more pirates, giant tentacle monsters, an island filled with bird people, and a ship's cat that's no good at catching mice. But first she has to get the band back together.

I really enjoyed this. It's energetic and funny and tense and full of naturalistic historical detail. It's also quite violent and gory, which I enjoyed less. But the crew is a squabbly family that would do anything for each other, the settings are described with care, and Amina's foul voice and bad knee make her entirely relatable. I felt like her flexible relationship with the principles of her religion was handled well, especially when balanced with her unwavering faith in god, and I appreciated seeing the world through her eyes.

Contains: graphic violence, gore, descriptions of dead bodies; doing things your religion tells you not to; threats of rape; fear of heights; a character questioning their gender (if applicable) that may lead to some feelings of misgendering.
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Book Info

My Love Affair with England: A Traveler’s Memoir by Susan Allen Toth (1992)

Genre: Nonfiction, Memoir, Travel

LibraryThing: https://www.librarything.com/work/56906/

Acquired from: Capitol Hill Books, Denver, Colorado, USA ($7.50) [see also: Indie Bookstore Visit Log]

Started reading: October 31, 2025

Finished reading: November 4, 2025

Review

I picked this up because I nearly bought it from a UBS in Milwaukee a few months ago. It caught my eye again, mostly because I’m planning to go to England for a few months next year AND I adore pre-internet travel memoirs, so I decided to get it!

It’s a very charming book which focuses mostly on the bits of England that the author enjoyed, mixed in with some memoir-type stuff about her personal life and how it intersected with her visits to England and how that affected her time there. I enjoyed reading about the specific things she likes, as you can tell she REALLY likes them– but not to the point where it sounds like ass-kissing.

I also liked that she said specifically she only likes visiting and doesn’t want to move there; often I find that actually living somewhere is way different than being a visitor, often to the location’s detriment because now you have to deal with things like sorting trash and paying electricity bills, when really what you want to do is wander around looking at old buildings and eating bacon sandwiches.

Having been to England myself several times I recognized a lot of the stuff she was talking about, and that was fun, too. Overall I really enjoyed this book!

Reading Notes

Page 9:

I do not blame the English. If they keep to themselves, I also keep to myself. At home in America, I guard my privacy, cherishing the easy and congenial company of my husband or quiet time alone. When I am in England, I need even more meditative space. Since I travel quite intensely, looking and listening and walking hard, at night I am ready to stop. I have to absorb what I experience and gather my energies for the next day. I want to sink into bed with a book, not traipse down to the pub to talk about politics or football. So I do not usually make social overtures.

Same!!

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Crossposted from Pixietails Club Blog.

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When I called the health center in late October and said "My last refill of ADHD medication came with a note that said 'book appointment with doctor for checkup'", they told me that there were no appointments available until December, and to call back at the beginning of November when the December appointment slots open up.

I called after lunch today, and the receptionist told me that all the slots had been filled already (even though the slots only opened for booking this morning - I checked their hours - at 8 am) so I would have to call back on November 17th when the next batch of appointment slots (for later in December I guess) opens up, "and preferably as early as possible in the morning!"

This isn't a functional system.

It might be the best way they can manage the resources they have, but it's clearly a health center that doesn't have enough doctors.

This is not an acceptable way to access a doctor's care in a public health system!!!!

(It's because conservative governments have had control in Finland and have been shoving through 'healthcare reforms' and insane cutbacks to all the social services over the last few years.)

An appointment with a private GP at the chain of private health centers with a branch in town has a base price of 100€, but it's 140€ for specialists and I suspect might be more for psychiatrists. (I haven't seriously considered going there, so I didn't check the specifics. Checking how the psychiatric medications are going for me is theoretically a more long-term monitoring anyway, not a one-time visit.)
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Today is cover reveal day for my second science fiction book: Surviving Peace, coming in March 2026. The talented Warren Design created it.

It's the sequel to The Dementia, continuing the story of Jacks, radio operator and martial artist, and Antony, chief engineer, on the generation ship Peace. Peace is in chaos after a violent uprising. While Jacks and Antony averted catastrophe, the work's not done to keep Peace flying and the people in its two cities alive. The problem? Everyone wants them dead.

Pre-orders go up at the end of November so stay tuned for that.

flist firsts

Nov. 5th, 2025 14:05
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Hello friends. I am running Gorevember-themed round of my Dreamwidth-based [community profile] leetoltreatex. Handmatched based on characters and a limited set of freeforms with a requirement for gore. Come play with us?

The Big Read meme

Nov. 5th, 2025 11:33
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I got this meme from [personal profile] flareonfury with details in this post

"The Big Read reckons that the average adult has only read 6 of the top 100 books they've printed. Well let's see.

1) Look at the list and bold those you have read.

2) Italicize those you intend to read.

3) Underline the books you LOVE."

I bolded titles where I was sure I read them. I bolded numbers where I've read part of the book/book series. I did not bother to underline any. There are a couple of repeats (The Complete Works of Shakespeare but also Hamlet for example) and some odd omissions I think.

The list is included in a textbox in case you want to play
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[personal profile] nanila posting in [community profile] awesomeers
It's challenge time!

Comment with Just One Thing you've accomplished in the last 24 hours or so. It doesn't have to be a hard thing, or even a thing that you think is particularly awesome. Just a thing that you did.

Feel free to share more than one thing if you're feeling particularly accomplished! Extra credit: find someone in the comments and give them props for what they achieved!

Nothing is too big, too small, too strange or too cryptic. And in case you'd rather do this in private, anonymous comments are screened. I will only unscreen if you ask me to.

Go!
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As mentioned earlier, I have some Whumptobers to catch up on (half finished, or ones I was a little uncertain about posting) so those will continue into November.

No. 15: “You can take a break, if you just tell me that it hurts.”
Failed Rescue Attempt | Body Part in the Mail | Live-Streamed Torture

1000 wds, Murderbot POV (TV-verse)
Also posted on Tumblr.

Expand1000 wds under the cut )

Tech bro decorum.

Nov. 5th, 2025 12:14
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So you know? The deal is simple.
If you’re a little guy, do whatever you want with my work.
If you’re a big guy, fuck you pay me.

I’m far from the first having ideas in that vein. There’s a growing feeling that Open-Source is just capitalist tech bro decorum no longer serving our communities

On open source.

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[ SECRET POST #6878 ]

Nov. 4th, 2025 19:34
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⌈ Secret Post #6878 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 18 secrets from Secret Submission Post #982.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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When I saw her a few weeks ago my vegan-and-gluten-free-bc-allergies friend said that she loves oat milk and it tastes much better than soy or almond milk, especially in coffee, so I got some to try.

And it's so good! I'm only making cocoa with it right now, but it impressed me right away. I use lactose-free dairy products usually, but I suspect that they disagree with me too, just mildly, especially cocoa made with milk. I've always been too lazy to test that systematically. Eliminating all dairy for an extended period (which I have a few times) isn't rigorous enough because other things can upset my stomach too, including just... anxiety.

I really love lattes - mostly chai and matcha, but I like coffee lattes too - and I've been wanting to make them for years and years. I was originally planning to get a milk steamer as a reward when and if I ever pass the driving test, but currently I'm trying a caffeine-free diet to see if it helps my anxiety. I'm not sure if I will decide to consume it again when the trial is over (I'm doing two and a half months minimum on physician's advice), and there's no point buying one if not.

There's popcorn flavored oat milk at the store. Bewildered and concerned. Don't like that.
[personal profile] jazzyjj posting in [community profile] awesomeers
It's challenge time!

Comment with Just One Thing you've accomplished in the last 24 hours or so. It doesn't have to be a hard thing, or even a thing that you think is particularly awesome. Just a thing that you did.

Feel free to share more than one thing if you're feeling particularly accomplished!

Extra credit: find someone in the comments and give them props for what they achieved!

Nothing is too big, too small, too strange or too cryptic. And in case you'd rather do this in private, anonymous comments are screened. I will only unscreen if you ask me to.

Go!
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Title: Hearty Appetites
Fandom: FAKE
Author: 
[personal profile] badly_knitted
Characters: Ryo, Dee.
Rating: PG
Setting: After Like Like Love.
Summary: There’s nothing like sailing to work up an appetite.
Written Using: The dw100 prompt ‘Whet’.
Disclaimer: I don’t own FAKE, or the characters. They belong to the wonderful Sanami Matoh.
A/N: Double drabble.
 


 
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[personal profile] runpunkrun
Moody photograph of the ocean from an outlook. In the foreground, two dirty hands claw their way up over the edge toward the viewer. Text: Mystery & Suspense, at Fancake.
[community profile] fancake's theme for November is mystery & suspense. If you have any questions about this theme, or the comm, come talk to me!

Doctor Who Drabble: Gone Viral

Nov. 4th, 2025 16:46
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Title: Gone Viral
Author: 
[personal profile] badly_knitted
Characters: Fifteenth Doctor, Ruby, Lindy.
Rating: PG
Written For: Challenge 972: ‘Viral’ at 
[community profile] dw100.
Spoilers: Dot And Bubble.
Summary: The Doctor and Ruby will do whatever it takes to save lives.
Disclaimer: I don’t own Doctor Who, or the characters.
 
 


badly_knitted: (Torchwood)
[personal profile] badly_knitted
 


Title: From Bad To Worse
Author: 
[personal profile] badly_knitted
Characters: Jack, Team, Ianto.
Rating: PG
Written For: Challenge 890: Hot at 
[community profile] torchwood100.
Spoilers: Nada.
Summary: The team are looking forward to hot drinks back at the Hub.
Disclaimer: I don’t own Torchwood, or the characters.
A/N: Double drabble.
 
 


Fic in brief

Nov. 3rd, 2025 21:15
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A couple of quick things I wrote for Fandom Giftbasket:

Firefly (Biggles/EvS, G, 1500 wds)
An evanescent moment on the journey home from Sakhalin.

Vaguely inspired by a photo of fireflies in India.

Birds (Alliance-Union, Meg/Dek, 500 wds)
Posted as a commentfic snippet, just a soft little moment for them after a rider ship mission.

Tuesday @ 6:14 pm

Nov. 4th, 2025 18:14
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bloodlines 2

Absolutely baffled that apparently the dev’s takehome from the first game was, "All those levels at the end with just endless labyrinthine corridors of enemies? Yeah! That was the best part!"

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[ SECRET POST #6877 ]

Nov. 3rd, 2025 20:05
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⌈ Secret Post #6877 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.


ExpandMore! )


Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 27 secrets from Secret Submission Post #982.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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I spent last weekend in NYC for a Broadway marathon of two seasonally appropriate horror-comedy musicals and also Operation Mincemeat, and had a really great time!

Saturday (11/1)

ExpandBeetlejuice )

ExpandBat Boy: The Musical )

Sunday (11/2)

ExpandOperation Mincemeat )

Tears and conversation

Nov. 3rd, 2025 18:28
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When was the last time you cried in front of another person?

For me it was on the phone with my friend [personal profile] nyyki when Ghost decided to go basically no-contact with me in the beginning of September. (In my estimation, phone conversations absolutely count as crying in front of someone.)

I’m over the emotional immediacy of the feelings of bewilderment, abandonment, and betrayal. I still miss him and I really desperately miss the kitties sometimes, but I can deal with having been lied to about whether we would stay friends. I can deal with having given someone six months of space and had them instead of telling me that that wasn’t enough space just decide to cut contact completely. I can deal with not understanding why Ghost decided to stop growing or changing as a person. It’s not ideal, and I don’t deal well with not knowing important things that affect my life, it makes me neurotic and overthinky but it’s … well, it’s not fine, but it’s more disappointing and aggravating at this point and less the emotional equivalent of a freshly-broken toe. (Broken toes also make me cry. I can bear bad fibro flares like an adult, but broken toes make me tear up like an overstimulated toddler when something feels unfair.)

Thanks for sticking with me so far.

Relevant YouTube link behind the cut for folks whose screen readers may still be borked: ExpandRead more... )

So really: when was the last time you cried in front of someone? Feel free to comment here or to DM me or to ping me on other contact platforms. Anywhere you like, if you want to have a meaningful discussion about who you are, or what we have in common, etc..

deCAPTCHA.

Nov. 4th, 2025 09:52
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I got up to level seventeen then utterly failed at drawing a circle on my laptop trackpad . . .

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 I finished Cibola Burn this morning. I was very apprehensive about reading it for some reason, but ultimately I liked it more than I thought I would. 

Expandspoilers )

Next up is Nemesis Games, though I may take a wee break. Read something else and watch season 4 of the show.

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Title: Captured
Fandom: The Fantastic Journey
Author: [personal profile] badly_knitted
Characters: Liana, Fred, Varian.
Rating: PG
Written For: Challenge 474: Hurt.
Setting: Children of the Gods.
Summary: Varian has been taken prisoner and Liana is concerned for his safety.
Disclaimer: I don’t own The Fantastic Journey, or the characters. They belong to their creators.
A/N: Triple drabble.



Captured

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Title: Captured
Fandom: The Fantastic Journey
Author: 
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Characters: Liana, Fred, Varian.
Rating: PG
Written For: Challenge 474: Hurt at 
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Setting: Children of the Gods.
Summary: Varian has been taken prisoner and Liana is concerned for his safety.
Disclaimer: I don’t own The Fantastic Journey, or the characters. They belong to their creators.
A/N: Triple drabble.
 
 


Ficlet: Family Fears

Nov. 3rd, 2025 16:47
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Title: Family Fears
Author: 
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Characters: Jack, Ianto.
Rating: PG
Word Count: 600
Spoilers: Post-Children of Earth Fix-it.
Summary: Jack and Ianto’s relationship is going well; there’s just one thing that’s bothering Jack.
Written For: The prompt ‘Any, any, “Are you ashamed of me?”, at 
[community profile] threesentenceficathon.
Disclaimer: I don’t own Torchwood, or the characters.
 
 


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I finally managed to find good information about getting rust off of a cast iron woodstove by using Marginalia Search Engine, a specialty search engine that is intended to resurface the "old web" of private websites and bulletin boards and stuff instead of SEO and corporate slop.

A few years ago in the winter when we were using the cast iron woodstove sometimes, someone (me) uhmmmmm absent-mindedly left some candle holders sitting on top of it with candles in them and those included ones carved out of solid blocks of pink rock salt (hideous, they belonged to my MIL, who was addicted to candles. Why didn't we just get rid of them? We hated them. Natural aversion to throwing things away. We have since thrown them out). So it turns out that ummm the candles completely liquefy if you do that and then light a fire in the stove, and they like cause the salt to run and melt onto the surface of the wood stove and salt is bad for cast iron. So. Big rust spots.

And the rust spots have got worse with time, because when it first happened and we tried to get them off, we tried with normal google and duckduckgo searches and got no better advice than sandpaper and steel wool. We only managed to get a tiny bit of the rust off and determined that getting it all off would have taken about 5000 hours of hand-sanding. Since that was not a worthwhile proposition, we left it that way for another year.

So anyway, I tried Marginalia a month ago or something, and it only took a few minutes to unearth a thread about restoring cast iron woodstoves on an old-fashioned bulletin board on "finishing.com, the home of the finishing industry". It's straight out of the internet 20 years ago. And the information was MUCH better!

  • WD-40 softens rust

  • wire brushes, not sandpaper or sandblasting (although industrial, like, having the stove ripped out and taking it to someone who will sandblast it is the nuclear option if it's completely covered in rust everywhere)

  • wire brush attachments for power drills


That was all the info we needed! WD-40 never seemed stinky to me when I was using it on door hinges and stuff, but when you spray it over the visible rust on a wood stove it is noticeable, though not TERRIBLE; it smells kinda like you're in an auto shop, but not in the middle of the car part. Like by the entrance.

You can get visible change on small rust spots with a handheld wire brush. A few hours on two days with the drill attachment has seemed to do the majority of it. It's very hard to work in eye protection goggles and a high filtration mask though. I have to stop, lift the glasses to look, then lower them and start again every minute or so. We are not planning to repaint the spots that have been taken back to the silvery iron, according again to the advice on this bulletin board. Apparently lighting a fire after the WD-40 is already going to be stinky enough and the paint would be worse. You can get protective stove polishes of some kind apparently.

This stove is a Jøtul 3 Classic cast iron woodstove, in a traditional 19th century style. It's completely inappropriate for this 1950 modern-style house. The expected stove in the livingroom is (and no doubt was) a masonry stove, which is much better at heating an area because the ceramic conserves heat and releases it gradually. The form of masonry stoves, which are of course built on-site, was typically streamlined in the years after this house was built. Nowadays you can't build them yourself anymore and that makes them more expensive, so somebody probably replaced the original one when it failed with this cast iron stove perhaps in the 1980s, which was the last time this model was made. But crucially, although a woodstove is completely inappropriate to the house and less functional, there were and are woodstoves that are more minimal and modern in form and they could've just got one of those. But nope.

Anyway, we can't afford a masonry stove like, ever, but our ambition is to replace this woodstove with a Porin Matti, a cheaper alternative to a masonry stove that is still slightly better at retaining heat than a cast iron stove, and which also (a) was in popular use in 1950 and (b) looks similar to the style of masonry stoves typically found in our type of house. These only cost about 2500€ (not counting labor), in contrast to masonry stoves which are typically over 8000€ not counting labor (and requiring much more labor because the mason has to build it on site out of blocks and tiles). We would've been able to buy one this year probably if we hadn't had this broken sewage pipe issue, which ended up costing around 10k. (We had previously earmarked that money, an inheritance from my great-uncle who died recently, for restoring the outer front door and maybe a stove; but the last of it got used on the plumbing instead.)
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